Original Air Date Published on February 16, 2016 Part 2 of 4
Why is talking about sex such a stigma in the Filipino culture? On a panel of self love, these women talk about being self positive and why it’s important to be open to discover what gives us pleasure and not be ashamed of it.
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At new bonamana mccoullough allowance Program ido we are back on kebab i and Today we are talking about self-love and Before we went to our break I said we Were gonna really talk about love like Love love you know uh when you talk About love you cannot take away the Topic of sex because when you love Someone you make love de ba Barossa Comunidad not a hindi not a pinnacle Sapling sex de Baca Singha uh I had a Panel which you were part of and nobody None of their parents ever talked to Their children about that three-letter Word party abandon attempt in a goose Oppinion Kalon pakusa Panta say de Bona Blonde and pag-ibig or so how relating It to self-love how do we love ourselves Okay so endearing moral agenda use upon Self-love um masturbation pero siempre In Thibodaux us oppinion Canseco boy Just go CG toe Angie no by using us a Vinyasa TV peppadews a penitent Kisei Ending up in a goose a panda ba and this Is talk Tuesdays we want to talk about It why do you think there's such a Stigma to net about not talking about This issue of sex and how to please Ourselves you know I think more than Anything it's because the Philippines is Predominantly a Catholic country and you Know there are rules in the Catholic Church You know premarital sex you know you
Can't address that and a lot of the the Parents in the older generation Especially would not address it and even If maybe in the back of their minds They're thinking oh I think maybe my Kids are engaging in premarital sex it's As if it's taboo to talk about you know Birth control or you know safe sex Because just because they were raised That way and I think times are changing And they're seeing I mean in the community here and in the Philippines you're seeing teenage Pregnancies or you know pregnancies Outside of wedlock and you know I think That that was the turning point perhaps That maybe now they should start talking About all the you know premarital sex And being safe about it Despite what the Catholic Church is Teaching yes Mindy not a Mandi Mohalla Pakusa pan en la Luna You know that the Philippines failed in Its Millennium Development Goals because Of overpopulation so let's talk about That what can you say that your parents Ever talk to you about that three-letter Word you know actually when I was Growing up my mom gave her I don't Remember she talked to me but she gave Me this book on how to make a baby It was um it's you know for children With pictures but of course when you're Little you're like oh how interesting
What's that which I have you the book But never talked to you about it I mean Nothing like follow-up about it but you Know um but I think too you know I think For a lot of people in the older Generation and I'm not saying all Because not all for maybe majority is That sex um you know sex is for having Babies and having children it's not About pleasure It's not it's not to be seen as Something pleasurable like but that is Completely wrong agree with that 150% You know it's supposed to feel good Right tinabobina buona notte indeed all Right so pretty self pleasure you know Of course you're not gonna talk about it That way right right okay so Sabina not Then I was thinking the bustling Guaje Nam ah Tagalog there is no word for Masturbation for women for men there is I'm Park Babbitt a D by Union Union word Sorry PO oh but Sababa i wanna know Meirin ba coumarin de manana manda hocus A goose tokuma la mignon word neon um da He'll appoint me and nothing above Hey lemon na Habano Malaysia and baba Wawa tahuayo hindi KO param I don't Shame someone for for further you know For feeling a certain way and Laluna Kapil my mom and I Oh you need to make Sure that you choose your words poor Madre de ba come ma hikita yo-yo and Anu Meghanadha wangan on continued Appa to
Be Anna Kournikova yang mal en masse Amaya embezzle Anna Pimenta Casa Cuarto mo that's private you do that in Private but because this is what I Learned from you Alison this world this Word called sex-positive it's about not Shaming someone for for something that's Happening biologically right what can we Say about self-love and and pertaining That to our community I think I think it Connects to some of the conversation we Were just having about the the Martir And like this idea that I have to Sacrifice and it's all about it this External thing and I think sometimes the Way that's sex and our bodies are Portrayed is like it is this external Function I'm going to go and have a baby Or I'm gonna go and satisfy my husband Or my partner right but I think like in All of the reading I have done a lot of What I owe a lot of women base desire is All it and also men too but like a lot Of it is in our heads right a lot of it Is like how can i connect to actually Can I stop and actually allow myself to Feel what is happening in my body or am I trying to rush through it because I'm Trying to fulfill whatever the protocol Is for this action right right a lot of It happens here right I get turned on Here right and then so what does it mean To then give myself permission to give Ourselves permission than to say well
What really what do I desire what do I Think is attractive what am i what have I ingested but then what do I also see In the world or in my life or with my Partner like what is really getting you Know my interest going my juices going My thoughts going so that I feel the Rush and the physiological benefit of Being able to have this kind of love [Laughter] Allow yourself to go there okay we'll be Right back I'll go buy us a day